Hello,
I am not married, but I know that prayer changes things. So pray a little more than before, make it known to God what you need for Him to do for you. Declare authority over the childish spirit of your husband. Let the devil know he has no power or place in your household. Speak those things into existance that you are seeking to happen in your life. Death and Life are in the power of the tongue. Be prayerful and careful of your words. Do all these things in Jesus precious name. The fervant prayer of the righteous availeth much. Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Amen!
Proverbs 18:21, 18:21-24 Matthew 6:33
Make sure that you communicate with your husband about the things that are of concern to you. Do not just expect him to know how you feel or what you're thinking, because what is evident to you may not be to him. Communication is the key, not confrontational, but conversational.
Well, after being long winded. I hope I was of a little assistance to you. May God bless you and your family, in Jesus name. 